Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Partners for life

To have a partner that is always working away from home is really a difficult task. There are so many things that we read and hear about that break families. In my opinion being away from the family most of the time is one of the recipies for disaster for a family.

I think it takes true commitment to the relationship for any partner to endure loneliness, but that becomes easy to do when you know that the end results will be enjoyed by all in the family, the situation is not only to fulfill one person's ego.

It is good for the one who is away most of the time, to once in a while include the other partner in this other life. The best is to use an opportunity when there is social events, in this way the other partner has a chance to have a taste of what you busy with out there and this can make the partner to be more supportive.

One thing good out of the trip with my husband to Swaziland and the gathering with all those important people that he deals with through his work, its that, every time he comes back home I need to up my game in being hospitable, because I'm in competition with all the hotels that accomodate him. When he goes away, he must miss my home cooking, in any case people say 'you go to a man's heart through his stomach'.

Have a Blessed life!!

2 comments:

  1. They also say that 'absence makes the heart grow fonder'. In your case so true, particularly given fact that your home-cooked meals far exceeds that of hotel food. I can see that , 'love is in in the air!'' They also say that 'absence makes the heart grow fonder'. In your case so true, particularly given fact that your home-cooked meals far exceeds that of hotel food. I can see that , 'love is in in the air!''

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  2. This just goes to show that there is still hope for all of us and true love does exist, keep the fire burning!!

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